Oh god. I feel a bit shitty for this but: I went to yay con last year and it was the tiniest, crappiest thing ever. It was tiny, amateurish, tiny, childish, and also tiny. I only had to travel about an hour to get there and regretted it.

The only yaoi-ish thing about it was a cardboard box of random doujin. For the rest it was just a really crappy con. The average age of the attendants was 13.

There were a couple of Dutch, gay, comic book artists who don't have anything to do with manga, and they had no idea what was going on. (Since when is yaoi FOR gay men?)